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Name: Wendy
Country: United States
State: Massachusetts
Birthday: 1/3/1991
Gender: Female
Interests: Ice Skating, Swimming, Football, Basketball, Hockey
Expertise: Quiet, Stupid yet smart, eat, watch tv,.....and stuff
Occupation: Student
Industry: Other
Message: message me
AIM:  wendychen105
Member Since:
1/3/2004
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A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended. Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.
"Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road." Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.
The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."
The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand. "You see," said the old sage, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back.
So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong." | | |
| Everybody Doesn’t Have To Love Me
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don’t
necessarily like everybody I know, so why should every-
body else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved,
but if somebody doesn’t like me, I will still be okay and
still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make some-
body like me, any more than someone can get to like
them. I don’t need approval all the time. If someone does
not approve of me, I will still be okay.
It Is Okay To Make Mistakes
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I an still
a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is
no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am
trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue try-
ing. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to
make mistakes, too. I will accept mistakes in myself and
also mistakes that others make.
Other People Are Okay and I am Okay
People who do things I don’t like are not necessarily
bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just
because I don’t like what they do or did. There is no rea-
son why other people should be the way I want them to
be, and there is no reason why I should be the way some-
body else wants me to be. People will be whatever they
want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot
control other people or change them. They are who they
are; we all deserve basic respect.
I Don’t Have To Control Things
I will survive if things are different than what I want
them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept
people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am.
There is no reason to get upset if I can’t change things to
fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason
why I should have to like everything. Even if I don’t like it, I can live with it. | | |
| i had the best valentines day ever! even tho most of my friends backed out, i had a great time ice skatin! | | |
| my xanga is so boring n e body wanna help me make ti better i will give u the pw and stuff. im me: wendychen105.
me dun hav a valentine. very sad gonna be alone on valentines day. lol. goin ice skatin at boston common on valentines day. cum ppl.
yay! i didnt fall | | |
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( i dun look lik this now. well at least i think. im me and tell me but i doubt it cause u guys never do but plz. lol. i look so corny bak then.)
sn: wendychen105
this pix is pretty old. i look ugly bak then but it is the only picture online that i can find of myself. i didnt lik takin pictures much. girl next to me is my favorite councelor(deborah).
this my first time ice skaitn but it was easy learning how to. i step on the ice and then i sort of learned how to. c it is easy so try people i might go on valentines day.
be my valentines!
the girl in the white jacket is my best friend Syping. she looks cute in that picture. i didnt no y i looked away i regret it. lol.
syping is lik better than me in everything but she is still my best friend. | | |
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